living for the right reasons, and not to make many excuses.

This weeks challenges,
 living for the right reasons, and not to make many excuses.

I'm getting counseling for my marriage, (Because good Italian Catholic raised girls don't give up on loving their man straight) this seems to work out to translating between sexes.
I have to say I think its working.
My hope is that: let the past be the past, lets move on, by celebrating what today can be! The counselor said to my husband of 8 years "What can you do you make her feel famous"
He went Christmas shopping this week for the 1st time in 10 years. This is progress!!!!


We got here because, It was all the little things, I just kept doing, and he kept walking all over me.
I made him feel like he could do no wrong, and when he did, he did not care that he had.
He said it was always a selfish thing.  He did not do these things maliciously. It was always expected that I just need know that he "loved"me and that's all that mattered "Get over it already".

The heart does not work this way.  I finally woke up," I deserved Love ", I don't want to be a martyr!  God must really want me to do something about this because it keeps happening. God loves me right?! God wishes light and love for all his kids. If your not getting light and love than do something about it!
So I am.

I found out that some of my friendships are also inadvertently working the same way.
I  Hope God will help me fix that too with love.